Articles by Abby

How Trauma Enters and Leaves the Body What Are Forms of Trauma? When people ask me what trauma is, I tell them that there is “Trauma” and...

How to Know You are Ready and Willing to ‘Have Kids’… or NOT! This is not a piece about how hard it is to be a parent. This is about what...

How to have a child-full (versus childless) life without having kids. Being a Marriage and Family Therapist, random people have asked me...

Top 10 Ways to Ruin Your Sex Life Number one, Treat intercourse and orgasm as the key to enjoying sex. Number two, Shame yourself or...

14 Ideas on How to REALLY Make Love Making love= Sex+Presence+Embodiment+Openness+Curiosity+Intimacy Share fantasies without...

How to Stop Hating Dating in 3 Steps (with elaboration) Step 1. Stop treating dating and finding a partner like a job. In other words,...

I always say that when two people get married there are three things you need to consider. You, the other person, and the relationship...